No To Disciplining With Ironfist

by: Renz Angelo Que Sr-B

Do you think slapping, punching, at screaming at your child will help make them the best person you want them to be? I believe that doing such thing is not human-like of us. We can always look for an alternative way so that children will listen to us. Applying an iron fist will result to you and your child to have a weak relationship and communicate less. Having a weak relationship with your child will make them not care if they are lying to you. We want respect from our children, not fear. There are many ways for children to respect parents which do not include pain and screaming. Some children who experienced an iron fist at hone tend to be more anti-social and have low self esteem, because the parents themselves are implying that they hate their child by hurting and screaming at them. Parents should not only care if their children respects them but also how they are doing it. Raising your kid wrong from the start can be hard to change once he has grown up already. Children are easily affected when their parents get mad at them, what more if the parents apply pain and screams at them. This is why I say no to ironfist