Monday, October 18, 2010

How to Know If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating on You - 5 Signs of a Cheater

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Humans are imperfect, and the same is true for relationships. Every woman in a relationship wishes her boyfriend will remain faithful. But sometimes, it just doesn't turn out that way. Discovering that out your boyfriend cheated on you may make you feel hurt and angry, but it will hurt you even more if you learn much later that he's been two timing on you for quite some time. If you doubt you're being cheated on, look for these telltale signs and learn how to know if your boyfriends cheating on you for sure.
Does he get cranky and angry more often?
Has he suddenly become more irritable and looks for every chance to criticize you. This gives your cheating boyfriend a reason to say that you 'drove' him away because of your supposed faults.
Or maybe he has suddenly become extra sensitive to your needs. Does he bring you gifts and flowers every now then when he didn't use to earlier. Has he suddenly become extra loving and caring? He may just be doing it to hide his guilt.
Has he become more secretive and private about his life lately?
Has he suddenly started making new "friend" he refuses to tell much about? He may not want to take you to the new cool place he discovered when he was out on his own with his "friend"
Does he get annoyed easily when you ask him of his whereabouts and accuses you of being snoopy or bossy when you ask about his new friends?
Has he suddenly started spending less time with you when earlier he would jump on every chance of being with you? If he doesn't want you to know where he has been and he starts being less around you, this could be a huge pointer that he has found someone else who he finds more interesting.
Has he suddenly distanced himself physically and emotionally from you?
Has he suddenly stopped kissing you or holding you hands like the way he used to? Does he avoid you more often? Does he make up all sorts of excuses as to why he can't be with you because he's spending time with his other girlfriend? Has he started staying up late for work or school and is always with his friend's or co-workers more than usual? These excuses could just be a cover up for his cheating
Does he accuse you of cheating?
This reverse psychology tactic is a great way for him to cover up his own guilt. He may also start accusing you of being more distant and less intimate than earlier. He may even question you on where the relationship is going to. Don't get caught off guard by questions like these and get emotional with him. Stand you ground and ask him to justify his doubts, if he backs down very easily and tried to change the topic then it may be a sign that trouble is brewing in your relationship.
Has he cheated before?
People never really change. Try to learn somehow, maybe from his friends or acquaintances if he has cheated on his past girlfriends. If he has cheated before, you can almost say for sure, he will cheat again.
Above all trust you woman's intuition and your 6th sense.

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