Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Believing in Oneself: Its Essence and Effects

by: Cloyd Uyson
Happy and grace-filled weekend once again to you dear friends!!! As you relax and get energized and continue with your journey bodily and spiritually, don’t forget that there is only one thing that truly matters from the beginning ‘til the end…GOD.  If you find Him you will find everything and lack nothing.  I just want you to know that I have so much trust in you as a person who possesses all the gifts and blessings from our Supreme Being, the creator of all, to become the best that you can be. I’m so glad to tell you that our topic for today is from the well- known Swami Vivekananda ,who is indeed a great person with great knowledge and wisdom.In fact, he just read a book one time and was able to remember throughout his life time what has been written in that particular book with the exact location or in what particular page.  This only shows that he is indeed a man of pure intelligence and obviously a man of knowledge.
Now let us try now to ponder the saying he once uttered which is actually out tile for this article,“You cannot believe in God until you believe in yourself.”  True indeed, how can you believe in a God whom you do not see and not believe first in yourself whom you actually see and feel and hear and the like?  As the famous philosopher Plato once said: “everything should start from within…”  Meaning to say, it is in and from yourself that all the things around you revolves.  The amount of faith or belief you have in yourself is also the same measure that you will have faith in your God and with your neighbor.
As you go on your with your life , take this opportunity of believing in yourself to heart, seriously and well. Remember, not everyone could have this precious chance of being aware that you need to believe in yourself first and foremost in order to do well with the rest of life.  The best way on how to do this is to retrospect, to meditate, to go back with yourself, to retreat…retreating back to oneself…confronting our issues, forgiving ourselves, others and counting all our blessings. All these combined will eventually help us understand and know who really we are and finally believe and have faith with ourselves.
Make then this step of retreating, a truly worthwhile experience, look back to your past life and examine how did you spend it.  If you will present such life you lived, do you think you could put a happy smile in God’s face?  If so, then ask for more blessings to keep you constantly in His grace and love…if not it is up to you to decide whom you wish to smile at the kind of life you are living now and for the rest of your stay on earth. I know you want God to be happy like anyone else…prove to Him that you are worthy of the blessings He showered upon you, most especially of having an excellent family, business and life in general.  Thank Him that no matter what, in spite and despite of all our imperfections and weaknesses, our stubbornness and selfishness of our imperfect families, of our struggles, pains and hurts, God never ceases to be with us and to love and be madly in love with us!  Isn’t it great to know that we are continually loved by Someone who has created us?  Hence it’s accounting time…let us now check and balance our lives…the very life God gave us to be spent in loving service not only for our loved ones but also to the rest of His creation…We are His stewards, thus we should become good caretakers of everything we have.  Let us add our list of friends and good works, multiply our good and charitable examples, subtract our sinfulness and pride, lust, anger, being selfish and the like.
In conclusion, believing in oneself is therefore the key towards believing with our God.  Hence, now that we know this let us therefore be at peace with ourselves and eventually be at peace with God… only then all things will have its proper place and order…let go and let God control of your life, then you will never wander or feel empty sad and bitter…if you could do this tall order, then you deserve a hats off.  Happy weekend folks!

Importance of Focus Towards A Goal

by: Cloyd Uyson
The famous middle ages and highly revered St. Thomas Aquinas once said: “the eyes are the windows of the soul”.  This famous expression is indeed true.  No matter how much we try in succeeding in life, we always need concrete and stable direction in order to attain our most cherished goal and destination.  We must therefore exercise constant concentration and focus in getting that aim no matter how difficult and rough the road maybe and no matter what it cost.
Coupled with focus and perseverance we simply need consistency in order to reach our dreams.  Sidharta Gautama Buddha and Jesus Christ are two perfect paragons and models in view of keeping one’s eyes on target.  They knew first and foremost of what exactly they want to achieve.  They prayed over it in order to discern if it is really meant for them and if is actually something that they need in order to progress with life.
Hence, the most basic part in this regard is no less than choosing and deciding what do we really want to do in life, what things do I want to achieve, where shall I exactly want to go…  Unless these things or issues are not clear to you then there is no reason why to keep your eyes on any particular target whatsoever.  If we have no particular and concrete aim in life, we will then be likened to a sailboat without a sail, something that floats here and there and has no exact destination to go…in short we will not go anywhere at all in life.
Our dreams are meant to make us complete, happy and satisfied. They are also meat to make us the best people that we can be.  Without this dream and the right motivation to attain it, we will never be happy at all in this life.  Life is a journey, and we simply need proper guidance and inspiration to make our pilgrim a worthwhile one.
Though we may stumble and fall from one hindrance to the next, we then must be conscious of the reason why we are sacrificing all these years, giving up so many valuable things we want so much, that is, if only to take a peek and finally grab and enjoy the most important part of all with this journey, namely, our dreams and thee realization of it.
In conclusion, we need to fix our gaze, our attention, our whole mind and body, our eyes and everything about us in view of this one sole goal, the dream of all our dreams so that one day, when everything gets cleared and when we finally get our aim we will have a sigh of relief and say to ourselves and the people who matter to us that your one single secret of making it to this finish line is no other than having your eyes on target.

Importance of Practice Towards Perfection

by: Cloyd Uyson
Happy friendship day to each and every one of us! It’s weekend once again, a time to refresh our tired bodies and mind.  This article will respond to this basic need of relaxing our thoughts at least once a week. There are no born perfect individual, there are only people who practice well that made them make perfect things. The saying goes: The expert in anything was once a beginner in everything. Truer words were never spoken. But this isn’t what we see. This isn’t what we feel when we watch these Olympians. It isn’t what we think when we watch any expert or great success.
Indeed, we see the finished product, shining brightly in designer packaging. We see triumph and achievement, not training. We see the riches, not the rags. And this, as much as anything else, is why motivation – that inner drive that carries us toward all we desire – continues to escape us.
Today that comes to an end. Today I will open your eyes to a new way of viewing the changes you wish to carry out and the challenges that are attempting to stop you. The Olympians we admire might possess unique physical talent and natural gifts, but that inner fire that compels them forward is within us all. It’s time to set it free.
Authors Don’t Write Books. Whether it’s a a friend who lost forty pounds or a track star streaking across the screen, our eyes can only see what is in front of us. And more often than not, that picture of success is daunting. It’s overwhelming, to see ourselves reaching those heights. No, it’s more than that. It’s unbelievable.
When we view success at its peak, we feel separated from it. We see ourselves as incapable of doing something similar. Take a book, for instance. Seeing a novel on a shelf leads to the same conclusion in the minds of anyone posed with the question: ‘Oh, I could never write a book.’
This view is all wrong. The reason? Authors don’t write books. What Do Authors Write? Authors don’t write books; authors write words. This is one of the most important ideas to understand. I know it sounds simple, but it separates those who progress from those who wish and wait.
We’ve already said that most see the finished product and feel overwhelmed by the prospect of achieving the same goal. If this only occurred when watching an Olympic athlete, there would be little issue. But that’s not how it works. We get that same sense of inability when viewing any worthwhile achievement. Losing weight, finding a new career, starting a business or new relationship, overcoming personal debt – these are outcomes millions wish to pursue but don’t believe they can achieve.
They can’t see past the finished product.  To get motivated, to truly ignite your drive, you must see your goals as achievable. You must believe in yourself and your abilities. You must see success, not as a matter of unattainable greatness, but merely as a matter of time. Losing weight begins with a single decision. Finding the job you love begins with a single Google search. And starting a new relationship begins with a single look.
As a conclusion, the world is built upon blocks, not one massive stone.  One step, one movement, one decision, one action. These are the things that feed success. These are things that you can do today.  Hence, while the iron is hot and the opportunity is still at your sight, go and master yourself in perfecting all your God-given talents and crafts.  Don’t ever say you can’t do it until you have tried a thousand and one times!  Happy weekend!

Forgiveness: Its Meaning For Us Christians

by: Cloyd Uyson
One of the greatest weapon that any warrior or fighter can ever have in his wars at battles is no less than forgiveness.  Since the time of the early Greeks and Romans, they believe that the most powerful weapon that they could ever give to their enemies is no less than forgiveness.  In the history of mankind, the greatest story which was ever told was on how Jesus Christ offered himself as a ransom for many.  He shed his precious blood on the cross in order for us to attain forgiveness from the Father.
Jesus was crucified to fulfill the mission of God the Father.  Jesus’ crucifixion is the apex of the salvation of mankind.  Had Jesus not been crucified or resisted crucifixion, humanity will remain in darkness and everyone will eternally be damned to hell.  The theology of His crucifixion is said to be the most profound and deep for all Christians and it is one thing that humanity should be very thankful about.  This mystery of crucifixion brings us hope and joy, an event in human history that is marvelous yet misunderstood, wonderfully amazing yet shameful in a sense for all the Jewish community.
To be crucified during the time of Jesus is the worst punishment that a criminal will undergo.  That was the primary reason why many faithful followers of Jesus after his crucifixion wavered and dwindled.  But soon after, He resurrected and changed the course of history.  He brought that enormous light that signals our total redemption and being saved.
Nothing therefore could even beat the perfect message of Christ’s crucifixion simply because from that somber mountain of the Calvary life and death got a new and momentous meaning.  His blood shed on the cross, his precious life offered for mankind can never be surpassed by any other human feat or deed.  Can you imagine a son of God offering Himself on the shameful cross naked and insulted for a sin He in fact is never responsible?
Well, from shame, the cross now assumes the symbol of love.  Christians draw from the cross the merciful and healing love which it gives through the power of Jesus’ blood.  It goes without saying then that as followers of this one true God, Jesus Christ, we must never be ashamed to suffer like Him and follow all His divine footsteps towards the cross.  After all this perfect example shown to us by Christ will eventually lead us to resurrection.  The glory of being an apostle of Christ is reached after the crucifixion.  All of our pains and difficulties here on earth will eventually be rewarded in the life here after.  Thus let us all work hand in hand in bringing the message of the cross through all the earth, shouting, chanting, celebrating for this precious redemption God the Son has unselfishly shared to us.  Only then could we be truly worthy of His love, mercy and redeeming grace shed on the cross by His most precious blood.
In conclusion, we too must be like Jesus, the Savior for the Christians, a great prophet for the Muslims and a revered person for other religions of the world.  His sweetest revenge is ultimately forgiveness of man’s sinfulness.  Life will truly be wonderful with forgiveness reigning in our hearts.  Happy weekend!

Optimism: Why It Must Be Lived

by: Cloyd Uyson
A lot of people are sometimes getting the bad things they expect in life, simply because those are the very same things that they are thinking over and over again.  The same is true with positive thoughts. Optimism is power.  With anything that the mind can conceive, the body can achieve.  If you want to live longer, be happy, healthy and successful, all you have to do is tell yourself that you can do it by tapping the healing forces within. There is no greater joy than a healthy, positive life. You feel exhilarated, energetic, happy and on top of the world. A sense of total well-being permeates your mind. The future looks bright. You feel good to be alive.
Great, but how do we get out of our innumerable worries, tensions and fears that the increasingly competitive life burdens us with? Simple! Tell yourself that you are good, healthy and capable. That is the power of positive affirmations.
Such affirmations are also called self-suggestions. It is a powerful tool for transforming your inner self into an amazing health generating, self-healing entity. You can record these affirmations on a tape synchronized with pleasant instrumental music and replay them often to make them more effective and permanent.
Psychology says that our mind controls our body. So, taking charge of your mind becomes a vital factor in keeping your body healthy. You can do this through affirmations that establish the power of your mind. Try: “With the power of positive thinking I now take charge of my body to maintain perfect health, strength and happiness unconditionally, now and always, so be it.” When you repeat this, the misleading programs of your mind will be erased.
It is said that we are never given a wish without the power to fulfill it. Each person is capable of programming his own mind to achieve what he desires. You can tap this capability by following a few simple steps. But before you begin, make yourself totally relaxed and be consciously willing to adopt the method.
Attuning yourself with nature guarantees an overall healthy life. To modify this statement into an affirmation, say: “I attune myself with nature to stay healthy now and forever.”
You can have the right kind of food by affirming: “I can attract healthy food to keep myself fit, healthy and strong, everyday.”
You can develop the habit of exercising your body and mind by affirming: “I can easily get up early in the morning everyday to exercise and keep fit and cheerful.”
In case you are an insomniac, all you have to do is repeat: “I can relax into sound sleep now and wake up revitalized, alert, bright and cheerful early in the morning. It is done. So be it.”
Sometimes, social influences play their part in either inducing or encouraging negative thinking. This is the stage where most doctors give up the case as incurable. So, to find the right doctor, suggest mentally to yourself: “I will locate the right doctor who can cure me completely in a simple, easy and positive way, now and always.
Your health problems can be dissolved by affirming: “I can now dissolve all my health problems, worries and fears easily, quickly and successfully in simple, easy and positive ways. So be it.
Unlike sleeping, magnetic relaxation requires you to be physically at rest but subconsciously alert. When your conscious mind is relaxed, the positive suggestions seep into your subconscious. To achieve maximum benefit from relaxation:  Sit in a comfortable chair or lie down on a bed. Let go of all the tension by repeating to yourself: “I can now relax comfortably. I can now relax my body. I can now relax my mind. Easily, quickly and positively. Now I can enjoy the state of alert relaxation peacefully.

The Paradox of Our Age

by Dr. Bob Moorehead

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, 
we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness. We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, 
watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life. We’ve added years to life not life to years. We’ve been all the way by Dr. Bob Mooreheadto the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outerspace but not inner space. We’ve done larger things, but not better things. We’ve cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We’ve conquered the atom, but not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish less. We’ve learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold more information, to produce 
more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less. These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profi ts and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill. It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom…..Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side. Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn’t cost a cent.Remember, to say, ‘I love you’ to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your 
mind. AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Persistence: The Key To Our Dreams

Persistence: The Key To Our Dreams
October 17 Gospel 
by: Gabby Herbosa
The passage: “I tell you, he will see to it that justice is done for them speedily.
But when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?” struck me the most because it shows us the typical people who pray and pray but does not do their part, or only pray because they need God during that time. It is sad to know that there are those kinds of people nowadays, and it seems unfair for God, who is all loving and kind to everyone, that we abuse His love for us. I think that this passage should be able to reach out to those kinds of people. God will always answer our prayers, although not quickly or directly, God knows what’s best for us. 
In relation to the gospel, the challenge for me is having the persistence and patience in praying. Like the widow who was persistent on the judge to get what she wants, I should harness the same persistence that she has for what I believe would be best for me. Prayer was and is a vital tool for a college entrance exam taker like me. Prayer is what kept me confident when I took the dlsucet. Throughout the examination, I felt God’s guidance through my success in remembering most of the things I reviewed. When the time comes though that my prayers aren’t answered. I should keep in mind to not blame and rant to God for not answering the, for there will come a time when they will be answered. I know that God has a plan for me. 
The gospel basically teaches the value of persistence. Through persistence, a lot of things can be achieved. Struggling through every problem that come my way, in the end of it, there will always be that sigh of relief that would relieve me from what I have just come through. Persistence is what all of us should possess. In life, if we are persistent, nothing can prevent us from achieving our dreams.

Persistence: The Key To Our Dreams October 17 Gospel

by: Gabby Herbosa
Persistence: The Key To Our Dreams
October 17 Gospel 
The passage: “I tell you, he will see to it that justice is done for them speedily.
But when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?” struck me the most because it shows us the typical people who pray and pray but does not do their part, or only pray because they need God during that time. It is sad to know that there are those kinds of people nowadays, and it seems unfair for God, who is all loving and kind to everyone, that we abuse His love for us. I think that this passage should be able to reach out to those kinds of people. God will always answer our prayers, although not quickly or directly, God knows what’s best for us. 
In relation to the gospel, the challenge for me is having the persistence and patience in praying. Like the widow who was persistent on the judge to get what she wants, I should harness the same persistence that she has for what I believe would be best for me. Prayer was and is a vital tool for a college entrance exam taker like me. Prayer is what kept me confident when I took the dlsucet. Throughout the examination, I felt God’s guidance through my success in remembering most of the things I reviewed. When the time comes though that my prayers aren’t answered. I should keep in mind to not blame and rant to God for not answering the, for there will come a time when they will be answered. I know that God has a plan for me. 
The gospel basically teaches the value of persistence. Through persistence, a lot of things can be achieved. Struggling through every problem that come my way, in the end of it, there will always be that sigh of relief that would relieve me from what I have just come through. Persistence is what all of us should possess. In life, if we are persistent, nothing can prevent us from achieving our dreams.

October 3 Gospel

by: Gabby Herbosa
This Sunday’s gospel illustrates how our faith towards God should be. Jesus was asked by his disciples to increase their faith. And so he replied that their faith be like a mustard seed, something that would thrive and increase through nurturing and time. He then taught his disciples that the appreciation a servant has for his master should be boundless. A servant should always be faithful to his master and not expect a reward for what the servant is doing is his job. The reward comes naturally after he does his job. 
Nurturing our faith is what’s important. The gospel emphasizes that we should have a faith that is vast. Just as how Jesus compared our faith to a mustard seed, we should let our faith thrive and get the best of us. We are all God’s servant and therefore we should have a strong faith in Him. Furthermore, as the gospel states, us being God’s servant, we should not expect reward from Him every time we do something good. We should remember that our reward will come when the time comes. 
Faith is what makes or breaks a true Christian. Having a strong one will define our relationship with God. We should remember that faith is what connects us to our master, God, who has limitless love for us. We could reciprocate that love through our faith. And as his servants, we should not fail to please Him.

September 26 Gospel

by: Gabby Herbosa
September 26 Gospel 
Jesus told the Pharisees the story of Lazarus and the rich man. Lazarus was a poor man who waited outside the rich man’s house for scraps. Then they both died and Lazarus enjoyed the rewards of the afterlife while the rich man was left to be tormented. The rich man then asked Abraham to ask Lazarus to comfort him, but he was denied. The rich man then continued to ask if Abraham could send warnings to his living loved ones so that they would not be tormented after they die. Abraham refused. 
The message of this Sunday’s gospel is crucial, especially in the world we are living in today. We live in a world where we explicitly see people neglecting those in need, especially the rich people who denies assistance to these people in need. It is sad to know that even if we know we have more than enough, we deliberately ignore helping others gain basic needs. The gospel’s message points out to those people. We are shown what it would be like if we deny giving out to the poor, like Lazarus. And in turn, we see that the poor will get their way in the end. Their reward and pleasure will be felt in heaven with God. 
Neglecting our neighbors who need us is a serious offense against God. We are all called to care for our neighbors, and give a helping hand. We are blessed with a luxurious life and we must not forget to help out those in need. By giving out the things we don’t need, we are able to help the people attain basic necessities in life. 

Disciplining Children

by: Kim Isip
I think parents should have an important role in the life of their children. They are their role models since they are the ones who raised them, so it is very important that they know how to behave their own children. Its normal to be strict to children at times, but they shouldn’t show harsh treatments like hurting or shouting improper words. This, the child may think that he or she is unloved and plus, studies show that children do what they see and we don’t want them to spank and say immoral words. Yes, parents should be strict sometimes and they don’t have to worry that this may cause their child to become a “rebel” this will only happen if you lack in giving love and affection to your child. Parents should appreciate the kids when they have some achievements even if the achievement is small because then they know that that is the kind of attitude you want to see in them, but if a child has done something wrong, then that is the time a parent should be strict. There is no need to be harsh, parents need only to remind them of the rules and that what they have done is wrong. If parents know how to balance being strict and not, then it will surely give out good results. 
 


Personal Reflection on Mary

by: Kim Isip
   Mary, as we all know, is the Mother of Jesus. Like Jesus, I also have a mother that I give my whole heart to. I always am thankful to my mother for giving birth to me, for loving me unconditionally, and giving me her best. Mary is too my mother and my mother’s mother. She loves all of us unconditionally no matter what we’ve done wrong. She is ready to forgive you as long as you ask for it. She has given me the atmosphere of hope which I can’t find in anyone else.
   I love my mother because she loves me. Sometimes, I know she is mad at me, even furious, but that doesn’t change anything. I believe that once you love someone, it can never be taken away even if that person starts to hate you. Either way, it is still different with mothers. They will never hate you.
   Like Jesus, we should always respect and follow our parents. They are the ones who took care of us when we knew nothing. And yet they still take care of us even as if you feel like you know so much. They love us and will always do and the least we can do is to give more back. 

HOW TO BECOME AN ARCHITECT/ENGINEER/INTERIOR DESIGNER

by: Kim Isip
            People have been asking me what I really want to be when I grow up, and I just keep saying: “I’m not really sure, Bahala na”. Lately, I have been actually thinking about it, “What do I want to be?” A question that sounds so simple, but why is it so hard to answer for me?
            My friends tell me to choose something I will be happy with, but those that I choose are really impractical and may not earn me much money, so I think about my family. My Mother is a nurse and so are two of my sisters. My other sister is a lawyer. My Father is an engineer, my brother’s an architect, and my sister’s an interior designer (she also has other jobs like a bag designer) and we actually own our own company. My family is really important to me, so should I choose a path that they have chosen?
            I can honestly say that I am different in the Family because all of them are gifted with mental capabilities while I excel in the arts like music and ballet, but they say I can’t use these talents that for my future and I respect that.
            I love my family as much as they love me. I enjoy beautiful sceneries and beautiful places. I love decorating my room and thinking of my own designs, so I guess I have an idea of what path I want to take. I’m not very precise yet, but I’ve decided that I want to work with my dad’s company. It’s where we gain the most profit, and for sure I’ll easily get the job as long as I take a course for it. I know I want it and I can still play the piano or dance when I am free. I am not risking anything and I know I want to be something like this. My family will surely give me the love and support I need to fulfil my goal. Also, it will make my father proud of me which makes me really happy.

RANDOM THOUGHTS IN VIEW OF THE GOSPEL PARABLES

by: Kim Isip
1.) GOSPEL Lk 16:19-31
“HEAVEN”
SEE: Jesus tells a parable about a very rich man who lived in luxury while he lived and a beggar named Lazarus that had sores and ate only his scraps. When they both died, Lazarus went to Heaven and the rich man went to hell.
JUDGE: Poverty in our country is very evident and I believe everyone who has money is like the rich man the only difference is that we are still alive and we can still all do something. We can help all the Lazarus in the world and at the same time save ourselves. We should love our neighbors as Christ has loved us.
ACTION: There are a lot of programs in school wherein you can volunteer in so that you can serve the poor. They are actually fun activities because I have joined some of them. Plus, it is such a great experience; you get to be with your friends and at the same time you get to help those who are in need. It’s actually already easy for us because we don’t have to search for a way on how to help because the help is already calling for us and all we have to do is to willingly sign up.
CONCLUSION: To people who have just realized the importance of serving: We are not blessed by the Lord so that we can use all the blessings on ourselves, we must also share these blessings with others who are in need of them and later on you will even find peace in your hearts which is an even better blessing that you can receive.

2.) Lk.18:1-8
“TIKTOK”
For me, the line that struck me the most was the part “because this widow keeps bothering me I shall deliver a just decision for her” because it showed that the widow had lots of determination, persistence and hope. These are just some traits that we should posses. We shouldn’t give up on challenging tasks because if you try hard enough, you will surely get to where you want.
During the DLSUCET, I really had a tough time. I found the test to be really hard even harder than the other tests I took. While taking the test, I immediately skip the items with lots of words or numbers on it without reading them and answered the easier ones instead. I saw that I had so much time left so I went back to those items and read them carefully, yes, some were really hard, but there are also some where you only needed to understand carefully. If you try solving for an item, you will eventually get the answer, but of course there was the time pressure.
Going back to the Gospel, I conclude that we should always have hope. We should always be patient and persistent like the widow. If you think about it, if an unjust judge will heed a persistent widow, then what more a just and loving God heed His people, we the people. We shouldn’t give up on our prayers, because for sure He will always be listening to us and He is the one who knows all, He Is the one who knows what is best for us, we should all just entrust everything to Him.

3.) Mt.5:1-12
“EARTHRULES”
The beatitude that struck me the most is Blessed are the clean of heart, for they will see God. I know that all will see God if they go up to heaven but I think that “see” means like an intimate relationship with God. I think that it is such a great feeling of joy and happiness that we can never experience here on earth to be in heaven, but what more is to be with God, to be in a deep connection with Him.
Maybe I cannot have a pure heart; I have already sinned countless times, I try to avoid it, but I need to ask more help from God. But I don’t have to be sinless to be a saint, even saints are sinners. The sound of being in heaven is already great and that I must keep in mind in order for me to be strong and fight the temptations being thrown at me.
The 8 beatitudes is like a lifetime goal for me with corresponding rewards. I have my lifetime to live up to the goals and when my time comes, I will receive great rewards. The beatitudes help me to pursue my mission, the mission God gave to all of us. Also, it helps me become a good follower, knowing that there is such happiness and peacefulness you can inherit that is unavailable on earth.
The most difficult beatitude is the one I chose in the first paragraph. Like I said, I don’t think I can have a pure heart because I always sin. It is such a difficult task because even in our thoughts, we sin. There are so many evils in the world that it is just so hard to avoid it; it is hard to have a pure heart.
If people knew and put to heart the 8 beatitudes, then maybe it won’t be as hard to have a pure heart then. The world would be a much peaceful place. People would be stronger and try their best to live up to the goals because they know that they can be peaceful and happy.

4.) Lk.21:5-19
“MARTYR”
SEE: Jesus warns His disciples that many will claim that they are the messiah and will talk about visions of doom and says that we should not believe them. We will be persecuted but we must stay strong. He also says that we should not be afraid because He will help us.
JUDGE: Jesus enlists’ signs of the end times such as wars, insurrection, earthquakes, famine, plagues, but we shouldn’t be afraid of these events no matter how frightening they look or sound because God will always be there to help us. We should trust God. We should never lose perseverance in making a better and peaceful place and we shouldn’t live in fear.
ACTION: I will always ask for strength to the Lord so that I can stay strong and remove my fears. I should always keep my faith no matter what kind of persecution is done to me. I must uphold my being Catholic and always trust in the Lord because I know that He will help me in the time when I need Him.
CONCLUSION: We should always be strong no matter what kind of evil comes at us. We shouldn’t listen to things that aren’t real, they are only things that will scare us and makes us weak. We are Christians and we should uphold that and never renounce our faith. We should listen to our hearts and not to the evils and then we will find that Christ is calling to us and achieve peace. 

Monday, December 13, 2010

Carrying My Cross

by: Carrol Medina

The gospel speaks to me as a sign of how materialism doesn’t matter. When we die, we won’t be able to bring anything we own here on earth, but if you carry the faith that was instilled in you during your baptism... not a single strand of your hair would be touch. He knows everything you do, everything you think.   It wouldn’t even matter if you try to explain yourself to Him. He knows everything that is going on. How? He planned everything. He is the ultimate designer of all.
The war of good and evil is the longest battle. Temptations, sins, curses? They’re all signs that there is evil around us. What should we do? We carry our cross. Our cross is the burden we brought to the world. Our sins is what makes up that cross. Jesus carried a cross for us. He suffered for us. I think I could carry a cross of sins for Him. It’s the least I could do for my Saviour. Earthquakes may come, but I will keep my faith strong. It’s all for Him.
What should I do now? Think twice before I do anything. Is this the right thing to do? Is this just? Is what I’m doing going to affect anyone? Is it for the good or bad? I want to do things to make our world a better place. I will not be able to gain anything if I cause chaos. I’m doing everything for Him. That’s my service here on earth. When I die, I want my Father to be proud of me. I want Him to say that I did good.

Apologize

By Jeremey Santos Sr E
(Mt 3:1-12, Preaching of John the Baptist)

 This Gospel is a bout John’s mission in the desert of Judea where he wore camel hair and a leather belt, and ate only wild honey and locusts. John the Baptist preached in the desert where he said, “Prepare the way of the Lord; make straight His paths”. A lot of people came to hear his teachings and he baptized them in the Jordan River. One of the Groups who came there were the Pharisees and Sadducees. When John the Baptist saw them, one of the things he said was, “Produce good fruits as evidence of your repentance.” Then, He told everyone there the coming of The One mightier than him.

The line that stuck me the most in this Gospel was, “Produce good fruits as evidence of your repentance”. This line says that “sorry” comes with acting on it. “Sorry” comes with change and making up for the things you did wrong. There are times when we say sorry, but then we go back to our old habits, or do the things you’re sorry about again. This is what makes the word “sorry” meaningless, and over rated. It becomes nothing more than a word, instead of a turning point for yourself towards being a good person.

Because of the message of this Gospel, I will do my best to change my habit of making empty apologies. When I apologize about something, I will makeup for it, and keep in mind not to do it again. This habit will benefit me, as well as the people around me because I am able to be an example to them to treat the word “sorry” as a turning point, and not just a word.


Just Like Dad

By Jeremy Santos Sr E

In the past, when people ask me what I want to be when I grow up, I would always answer specifically, like, “I want to be a musician with my own recording label”, or, “I want to be a manager in my own advertising company.” Although my answers are specific, and I would usually say it with conviction, and I know that these things are where my strengths are, I would always have that feeling of uncertainty, and start to ask myself, “is this really what I want?”, or “will I be content when I do this?”

These uncertainties became a problem when I needed to apply for college. I used to be so sure of what I wanted to be, but now, I was starting to doubt myself.

Every other Saturday, I would go with my parents to a Gawad Kalinga site in Taguig where they are caretakers in that area. I see them planning projects, and befriending the beneficiaries there, and I can see that through their missionary work, they give these people hope, and love.

That was when I realized, I want to be just like my dad. He always tells me to open my heart to what God would want for me, but now I realized that this is what he did. He is a VP in marketing and Sales in their company, and at the same time, he does missionary work in GK and he and my mom are member in the Couples for Christ Community. He he is surrounded by the people he loves, and at the same time, he shares the love, given to Him by God, and shares it to the people in society who need it the most. I cannot think of anything more rewarding than this.

I used to be uncertain of what I want to be when I grow up. But now I realized I would be happy wherever God takes me because that is where I would be happiest, just like DAD.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

Pope Urges Catholics To Prepare Hearts For Jesus' Birth

Thousands of families gathered in St. Peter's Square this morning to hear Pope Benedict speak about preparing their hearts for "He who comes" and to see the Vatican's Christmas tree. As the crowd listened to Pope Benedict's address, little children tried to peek through the barriers surrounding the Vatican's unfinished Nativity scene for this year.
The Pope offered those present a reflection on today's Gospel, Matthew 3:1-12, which features St. John the Baptist being called into the wilderness to urge repentance to prepare for the coming of the Lord.
St. Gregory the Great, the Pope said, taught that "the Baptist preaches the true faith and good works ... so that … the pathways to God are straightened and honest thoughts are born in souls after listening to the Word that leads to all good."
The Pope then connected the mission of John the Baptist to Advent. "(W)e too are called to hear God's voice, echoing in the wilderness of the world through the Holy Scriptures, especially when they are preached with the power of the Holy Spirit."
He pointed Catholics to the Virgin Mary as the model of listening, saying, "As we contemplate in the Mother of God a life totally shaped by the word, we realize that we too are called to enter into the mystery of faith, whereby Christ comes to dwell in our lives.
"Every Christian believer, St. Ambrose reminds us, in some way interiorly conceives and gives birth to the word of God," the Pope said.
Situations around the world that cry out for the coming of Christ were also on the Pope's mind as he reflected on the phenomenon of waiting that is associated with Advent. He asked everyone to pray for "all situations of violence, intolerance, suffering in the world, that the coming of Jesus may bring consolation, reconciliation and peace."
In particular, the Pope mentioned "the continuous attacks that occur in Iraq against Christians and Muslims," election-related violence in Egypt, and a dramatic situation in the Sinai desert where Bedouin human traffickers have taken hundreds of people hostage, subjecting them to torture to extract payments from their relatives living abroad. Pope Benedict finished his address by praying: "We ask the Virgin Mary in whose womb the Son of the Most High dwelt, and who we celebrate next Wednesday, Dec. 8, in the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, to support us on this spiritual path, to welcome in faith and love the coming of the Savior."

VATICAN CITY, December 5 (CNA/EWTN News) -

Analysis: What the Pope really said about condoms

By Alan Holdren, Rome Correspondent
Pope Benedict XVI
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Pope Benedict XVI’s comments on condoms in a new book-interview have whipped the media into a frenzy.
Many reports interpreted the words as a dramatic shift from Church teaching, but experts say that nothing has changed.
On the afternoon of Nov. 20, the Vatican's semi-official newspaper L'Osservatore Romano released a series of excerpts from the new book-interview called "Light of the World: The Pope, The Church and the Signs of the Times," by the German journalist Peter Seewald.
The newspaper, jumping the scheduled world release, chose to publish only two paragraphs of what is a more extensive response from the Pope to the question of whether the use of condoms could be justified to confront the problem of AIDS transmission.
This fragmented presentation did not give a full view of the Pope's words. But it said enough to lead some international media sources to conjecture that the pontiff had made a "U-turn" on Catholic teaching against contraception.
The actual text of the Pope’s remarks extends over two full pages. It begins with interviewer Peter Seewald asking the Pope about his statement to a reporter during his March 2009 trip to Africa that condoms are not a solution to the AIDS pandemic.
The Pope responds by reaffirming his answer. “People can get condoms when they want them anyway,” the Pope told Seewald. “But this just goes to show that condoms alone do not resolve the question itself. More needs to happen.”
Secular thinking about AIDS involves a “fixation on the condom” that implies a trivialization of sexuality, he said. As a result, sexuality is no longer seen as “an expression of love, but only a sort of drug that people administer to themselves.”
The remark that caused such a stir follows this. The Pope mentioned a situation in which condom use could be positive but still an immoral act. He used the example of condom use by male prostitutes.
Pope Benedict said: “There may be a basis in the case of some individuals, as perhaps when a male prostitute uses a condom, where this can be a first step in the direction of a moralization, a first assumption of responsibility, on the way toward recovering an awareness that not everything is allowed and that one cannot do whatever one wants. But it is not really the way to deal with the evil of HIV infection. That can really lie only in a humanization of sexuality.”
Seewald followed this up with a question about whether the Church is “actually not opposed in principle to the use of condoms.”
Pope Benedict responded, "She of course does not regard it as a real or moral solution, but, in this or that case, there can be nonetheless, in the intention of reducing the risk of infection, a first step in a movement toward a different way, a more human way, of living sexuality."
These words — and extremely varied interpretations given to them by commentators — have sent shock waves out from Rome to the world.
But it is apparent that the Pope’s words have been misunderstood or worse, badly distorted. While he said clearly that the use of condoms "is not really the way to deal with the evil of HIV infection," he conceded that they could be used "in the intention of reducing the risk of infection."
Unable to wait for further explanations, the Australian daily, The Age, reported: "Pope lifts ban on condoms." This became the common theme in the reporting.
However, the Vatican spokesman, Father Federico Lombardi, said Nov. 21 that "the reasoning of the Pope certainly cannot be defined as a revolutionary turning point."
He said that, instead, it offers an "original contribution" and a "far-sighted vision" of taking small steps to "a more human and responsible exercise of sexuality."
Janet Smith, an ethicist at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Detroit, published a statement on the website of Ignatius Press, the English language publisher of Seewald's “Light of the World.”
She said the Pope "is simply observing that for some homosexual prostitutes the use of a condom may indicate an awakening of a moral sense; an awakening that sexual pleasure is not the highest value, but that we must take care that we harm no one with our choices.
The Pope, she added, is not talking about morality, but the psychological state of those who make use of condoms. "If such individuals are using condoms to avoid harming another, they may eventually realize that sexual acts between members of the same sex are inherently harmful since they are not in accord with human nature.
"The Holy Father does not in any way think the use of condoms is a part of the solution to reducing the risk of AIDS. As he explicitly states, the true solution involves 'humanizing sexuality'.”
A former student of the Pope's, Father Joseph Fessio, editor-in-chief of Ignatius Press, said the Pope's comment on condoms is "very carefully qualified."
“It would be wrong to say, ‘Pope Approves Condoms'," Fr. Fessio said. "He’s saying it’s immoral, but in an individual case the use of a condom could be an awakening to someone that he’s got to be more conscious of his actions.’’
Archbishop Charles J. Chaput of Denver, writing in “On the Square,” the blog for the magazine First Things, explained: “The Church holds that condom use is morally flawed by its nature, and that, equally important, condom use does not prevent AIDS and can actually enable its spread by creating a false sense of security.”
"In the context of the book's later discussion of contraception and Catholic teaching on sexuality, the Pope's comments are morally insightful,” Archbishop Chaput continued. “But taken out of context, they can easily be inferred as approving condoms under certain circumstances," he said.
Archbishop Chaput said the Pope’s aides should have been better prepared for the controversy over his remarks.
“One might reasonably expect the Holy Father's assistants to have an advance communications plan in place, and to involve bishops and Catholic media in a timely way to explain and defend the Holy Father's remarks,” he said. “Instead, the Vatican's own semi-official newspaper, L'Osservatore Romano, violated the book's publication embargo and released excerpts of the content early. Not surprisingly, news media instantly zeroed in on the issue of condoms, and the rest of this marvelous book already seems like an afterthought.”
Seewald himself is expected to explain his viewpoint and give more context from the interview in a press conference at the Vatican on Nov. 23.

The Effective Educator

What Makes a Great Teacher?
Educational Leadership asked some prominent educators to describe the most important quality of an effective teacher.

Humility in an Age of Hubris
Humility: The word conjures up meekness, passivity, even submissiveness, and, in the worst case, obsequiousness. Yet this is a false humility. True humility is both a generosity of spirit and a quiet self-confidence. In teaching, it means understanding that although one may know a great deal, one does not know everything. It means being willing to learn from others, whether they be peers, 1st graders, or immigrant parents. It means treating all others—whether a parent with a 4th grade education or a professor with a PhD—as though they were as worthy and important as oneself. It means understanding that no method, strategy, or approach is the magic bullet to teaching and learning.
Although we cannot teach humility, at least by traditional means, we can nonetheless nurture and cherish it in school. We also cannot measure it, at least not by the blunt instruments currently in use. But we can easily assess it. We can see it in the eyes of students; in their self-possession and engagement; and in the respectful relationships we have with colleagues, students' families, and communities. In this age of hubris and shameless self-promotion, humility is an essential quality for teachers to have.
—Sonia Nieto
Professor Emerita, Language, Literacy, and Culture University of Massachusetts
Excitement About Learning
Effective teachers are more than dispensers of knowledge—they ignite a passion for learning. As a student teacher, I had the opportunity to observe two educators presenting information about Greek mythology. The first teacher sat behind his desk and read a magazine while his students completed worksheets. It was painfully obvious that he lacked enthusiasm, not only for his content area, but also for teaching itself. His job was to fill students' minds with information, and nothing more. In the second classroom, the teacher and her students chattered excitedly about Zeus, Poseidon, and other mythological characters. Each morning, the students couldn't wait to share something new they'd discovered the night before.
Teachers who pique students' curiosity about a topic, provide them with the cognitive tools necessary to learn, and then engage them throughout the learning process are priceless. Can we measure this quality? You bet. Just ask the students. It's obvious which teachers are passionate—not only for their content area, but also for those they teach.
—Joseph Semadeni
Fifth Grade Teacher, Wyoming
Making Meaning
In this age of instant information, the most important quality of an effective teacher is having the courage and ability to teach students to process what they've learned.
In the classroom, we teach such processing by having students practice critical thinking and problem solving as well as collaboration and communication. When we do this effectively, we will witness what Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi called "flow": Using existing skills, a student will accomplish an attainable challenge, acquiring new skills and confronting greater challenges along the way.
Teachers are also guides on the journey to synthesis, where a child's life takes root and flowers. Guiding students toward synthesis requires teachers to encourage the act of processing. Teachers may never see the results in the classroom, although parents and others outside it will.
The stories our students tell us give us faith. For example, weeks after our unit on making public service announcements, one of my 7th graders told me that she had noticed a glaring continuity faux pas in a movie she was watching at home. I likely won't be there the next time this student has such an insight about some experience in her life. And that's OK.
—Johanna Mustacchi
Media Literacy Teacher, New York
Reflecting on How You Teach
We can provide teachers with professional development in skills and strategies and exhaust the list of acknowledged best practices, but at the end of the day, an effective teacher needs to be thoughtful and intentional about implementing the correct strategies at the precise moments. To quote John Dewey, "It's not the doing that matters; it's the thinking about the doing."
Teachers need to gauge and strengthen their ability to reflect on their teaching by establishing self-reflective habits in the classroom. As administrators and instructional coaches, it's our responsibility to maximize the effect that each of our teachers has on the students in his or her classroom—and a skillful teacher selects, adapts, and refines every teaching move in a reflective, intentional way.
—Pete Hall
Elementary School Principal, Washington
Willingness to Grow
The most important quality that an effective teacher possesses is the desire to continually evolve as an educator to meet students' changing needs. In addition to being self-reflective, teachers must be eager to seek out support and constructive feedback from supervisors and peers and to develop the tools and pedagogical knowledge they need to improve their instruction.
Identifying prospective teachers with these traits can be challenging during the hiring process. I have addressed this issue in several ways. First, I review candidates' evaluations from previous schools and ask them about some of the areas highlighted for improvement. I provide constructive feedback after they conduct a demonstration lesson and ask them about areas in which they would most like to improve. My goal is to assess how they receive feedback, how much they reflect on their practice, and how often they set goals for personal improvement.
—Deirdra Grode
Codirector/Principal K–8, New Jersey
Designing Good Questions
Using an interactive whiteboard, having students work independently or in cooperative groups, lecturing, or using technology in the classroom can all be engaging and meaningful. But designing good questions is key to success in any lesson format.
Teachers need to design questions as part of the planning process. Too many teachers believe they can wing it when it comes to questioning, which often results in too many low-level, rapid-fire questions. Teachers should, on the contrary, use questioning to differentiate learning. We love to see teachers ask struggling students scaffolded questions that draw them into a lesson. We also like to see teachers ask higher-level questions that students answer and bounce off peers. Teachers should embed such questions into the flow of instruction in every lesson plan.
— Terrence Clark
Superintendent, New York
The Whole Kit and Caboodle
Recently, a group of highly effective teachers discussed what characterizes an effective teacher. We agreed that effective teachers continually observe their peers, engaging in regular professional discussions with other successful teachers. They are self-reflective, looking to improve both their classroom practices and their own learning. They don't give up on students, even the most reluctant learners. They frequently assess students' understanding and performance using a variety of means. They respect and incorporate the cultural context in which they are teaching. They take time to know students, and they use that knowledge to interpret student performance, adjusting their instruction accordingly. Finally, they deliberately develop an environment of trust, safety, and comfort for students because they truly care about them.
Teachers can't be effective if they exhibit only one or some of these characteristics—they need them all.
—Renee Moore
National Board Certified Teacher, Mississippi
Flexibility and Strength
Effective teachers possess two interconnected qualities. Flexibility is the ability to use different techniques for different kinds of learners, to recognize that each student is unique and comes with a different set of instructions for how he or she learns best. Flexibility means having the sensitivity to know that when a student doesn't understand what you're saying, you don't merely talk louder and slower; it means having many arrows in your quiver, the most important one being a sense of humor.
Strength is the ability to withstand the onslaught of 26 or more different opinions in one class period, while recognizing that each student needs to understand the lesson in his or her own way. It is the ability to maintain high standards while challenging everyone. Moreover, strength is the ability to breathe calmly while inside you feel as though you want to scream or cry. And strength is the willingness not to get into a power play with a student to show that you are stronger.
One can assess these qualities in a teacher by seeing whether the students are successfully learning the skills being taught. And one of the best ways to do this is by asking students to apply those skills in another situation or to teach them to a peer.
—Linda Nathan
School Headmaster, Massachusetts
EDUCATIONAL LEADERSHIP
December 2010 | Volume 68 | Number 4
Pages 74-93

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

COMPLETE POINTERS/COVERAGE FOR CL FINALS

Complete Coverage For Term 2 CL Final Exams:Handouts/Lesson/Sunday Gospel

Historical Background of Vocation-----------
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Levels of Christian Vocation-----------------
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Aspects/Types of Christian Vocation--------
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Types of Human  Love relationships---------
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Love Relationships in the Gospels----------
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Sunday Gospels-----------------------------
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Advent Season------------------------------
10
Marian Dogmas and Lessons----------------
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Option For God------------------------------
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De La Salle Santiago Zobel School
HIGH SCHOOL DEPARTMENT
CHRISTIAN LIVING SENIORS
Second Term S.Y. 2010-2011

Hand-out #1, On Vocation in General

Vocation: Historical Survey of Christian Understandings
For Reference: See Course Outline

• The idea of vocation has carried a variety of different understandings in Christian history. Basically these different views are all attempts to explain "What is the meaning and purpose of everyday work for Christians?"
If we start back just before the Christian era we find two sharply contrasting views of everyday work among the Greeks and the Jews.
1. Greeks.
• In the Greek world work was considered to be a curse. Aristotle said that to be unemployed was good fortune because it allowed a person to participate in political life and contemplation. Today it's probably politics that enjoys the low reputation.
• Anyway for the Greeks, society was organised so that a few could enjoy the blessing of "leisure" while work was done by slaves. Everyday work was a demeaning occupation that one should try to avoid. Certainly there was nothing spiritually meaningful or uplifting about everyday work.
2. Jews.
• The opportunity to think about issues and engage in contemplation was also valued by Jews. And when Jesus came on the scene he was only one of many Jewish rabbis or teachers on the block.
• However, it is very significant to note that Jewish teachers were not expected to live off the contributions of their students, but were all expected to have a trade through which they could support themselves.
• Far from being avoided, as far as possible work was to be embraced as part of God's purposes in creation and theological reflection would be engaged in by people who were daily engaged in everyday life in the world.
3. Early Christianity.
• Jesus was known as a carpenter and the son of a carpenter, although there is no example of him continuing this trade during the period of his public ministry. He called some of his inner circle of disciples to leave their fishing nets to follow him. But there are also examples of them continuing to fish at times.
• Certainly he gave no general call for all Christians to give up everyday work and much of his teaching drew on themes from the world of everyday work without any self-consciousness or apologies.
• Paul emphasizes a positive view of work, commending all Christians to continue in their work and to work well. And he plainly continued in his trade as a tentmaker during his church planting ministry. This would seem to be the general Christian pattern for the first century after the Apostles.
4. Distorted Christianity!
• Gradually the Church Fathers began to draw more heavily on Greek and Roman motifs in their theology and the more positive view of work gave way to a much lower view. This is reflected in the view of Eusebius who wrote about his doctrine of two lives about AD300.
• In a similar way Augustine distinguished between the 'active life' and the 'contemplative life'. While both kinds of life were good and Augustine had praise for the work of farmers and craftspeople and merchants, the contemplative life was clearly of a higher order. While at times it may be necessary to follow the active life, wherever possible one should choose the other.
• The one life is loved, the other endured. Very soon it was this view that dominated Christian thinking, until only those people pursuing the contemplative life or a priestly role in the church were said to have a truly 'religious' vocation.
5. Restoring the Balance.
• It was initially through the work of Martin Luther that the 16th century reformers recovered a sense that all of life, including daily work, could be understood as a calling from God.
• According to Luther we respond to the call to love our neighbour by fulfilling the duties that are associated with our everyday work. Work is our call to serve. This work includes domestic and civic duties as well as our employment.
6. A New Distortion!
• How much the "spirit of capitalism" was a true product of the Protestant work ethic or a corruption of it is still debated. Whatever the case, it is clear that with the passing of time the concept of vocation became so closely associated with a person's occupation or career that these words became synonymous and secularised without any reference to the calling of God. So the pursuit of a vocation became an end in itself.
• This is true for both capitalism and Marxism. Both encourage us to look for personal fulfilment through the work of our own hands. Once people worked to live now they are living to work.
• Marxism became attractive when the lack of a social ethic accompanying the Protestant understanding of vocation gave rise to a church that was afraid of conflict and sided with the status quo rather than exploited workers, following the industrial revolution.
7. The Destructive Consequences.
Today we end up with a mixture of destructive consequences resulting from the ways these influences have impacted on our understanding. Five of these are...
(a) Ordained pastoral ministry or missionary service is elevated by Christians above other vocations and they feel the need to pursue these even when they don't seem to fit (medieval monasticism).
(b) The Sunday-Monday Gap: The world of the marketplace is seen as "secular" and depraved: the world of the church as "spiritual" and divine.
(c) Workaholism and the devastating consequences of unemployment- employment is seen as necessary for a true vocation and the source of fulfilment (Marxism and a distortion of the Protestant work ethic).
(d) An inflexible view of vocation that is not adequate to cope with changes in work patterns and career paths and gender roles, etc...
(e) A view of Christian vocation which seems to foster either a strong personal spirituality or a strong social concern, but doesn't often combine these two essential elements effectively.
8. So What Is Needed?
• We need to find a path that will lead us between the twin heresies of divorcing faith from work and idolising work.
• We must rediscover that our primary vocation is the call to follow Jesus. But we must also emphasize that this call embraces the whole of our lives , including our everyday work.
• It needs to effectively combine both the personal and social dimensions of the gospel and nurture a lively everyday spirituality. We need to see ways in which our work is connected to the creating, sustaining and transforming work of God.
Handout on Christian Vocation:

De La Salle Santiago Zobel School
HIGH SCHOOL DEPARTMENT
CHRISTIAN LIVING SENIORS
Second Term S.Y. 2010-2011

Hand out#2 Vocation in General

What is the Christian Vocation?


The 'levels' of Christian vocation according to Germain Grisez, Catholic Theologian/Scholar

1. The first and basic level of vocation common to all of us Catholics is our basic commitment to follow Christ as we are consecrated to Him through the Church in baptism.
Ø This baptismal consecration is sometimes overlooked by many not knowing that those who are non-Catholics but decide to enter the faith as an adult treasure so much this level of vocation. Ø And many do not know that at this level, we share also the vocation to be Christian with our other Christian brothers and sisters - especially those Christians which have the Trinitarian formula (baptized in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit) in their baptismal consecration.

2. The second level of vocation is in secular language our civil status or in Church language our state of life.
Ø This involves our being single, married, religious or clergy.Ø At this level of vocation, the classic meaning of vocation is usually delegated only to the religious and the clergy. Ø But with the new theology and spirituality taught by Vatican II, it is expanded to a broader view that includes the secular vocation of the single person or married couple. Ø The Church revitalized its concept of holiness to incorporate the call as a universal one to all states of life: single, married, religious or clergy.

3. The third level of vocation is the personal vocation or calling.
Ø This is the level which we must discover for ourselves and if we do indeed discover it, we realize such a great meaning that would otherwise not have been seen if we were just to look at our being single, married, religious or clergy. Ø Those who have been single or married or in the religious or clerical state for a long time realize how revitalizing, how inspiring, how invigorating, how Spirit- filled their lives become once they discover this third level vocation in their lives.

The personal vocation and calling
At this level of our Christian life, our lives take on a deeper meaning. We are not imprisoned or tied down by the expectations society has of the single, married, religious or clerical state but rather we gain the gift of freedom from the Spirit to realize a particular mission, a particular apostolate, a specific task or job, an individual responsibility, or a unique set of obligations that set us apart and make us feel truly "called by name by the Lord God".
Indeed, at this level, our personal relationship with God has not only been rediscovered but deepened and strengthened with a life in the Spirit that calls us forth to greater and greater awareness of our Christian vocation to follow the Lord and His teachings.

The Christian vocation and calling
Given the three levels of Christian vocation and calling above, we can see that the ultimate aim of following our Lord in our commitment to Him entails going through all three levels. And eventually we are called to discover for ourselves that level of vocation that brings forth in us a far greater love for Him and His Church akin to a wellspring that gushes out living water that never runs dry.
Sunday, October 10, 2010
DE LA SALLE SANTIAGO ZOBEL SCHOOL
HANDOUT#3
DIFFERENT ASPECTS OF CHRISTIAN VOCATIONS
SINGLE BLESSEDNESS:
The fundamental vocation of all Christians is to commit oneself to God and to His Kingdom and to express this commitment in loving service of God and fellowman. God calls us to fulfill this vocation through the various lifestyles which are present to us. This would mean that whether one chooses to marry, be part of the religious or otherwise, what remains is our call to be servants of God.
Voluntary Singles
- those who have freely chosen to remain single. An example is, those people who want to spend more time to their work, those who dedicate themselves more to their profession.
- these are people who freely choose to remain single. There are many reasons for this kind of choice such as:
• To dedicate oneself to a profession or career.
• To dedicate oneself to taking care of their parents or family.
• Involuntary Singles
- those who have not actively chosen to be single but have simply not married.
- Those people who have dedicated themselves to God.
These are persons who have not actively chosen to be single but have simply not married. Again there are a variety of reasons for this. However being an involuntary single does not diminish ones capacity to serve God through his life.
• Extended Family
- those who did not get married and instead, take care of their relatives or support them.
In the Philippines we have a very unique characteristic that is inherent in the family, this is the extended family. Most if not all Filipinos have been raised not only by their parents but also by single aunts and uncles, as well as grandparents. These people are also like the children’s parents, this may also be the reason why the singles in the family may choose not to marry.
PRIESTLY AND RELIGIOUS LIFE
The Secular Priests
CATHOLIC ENCYCLOPEDIA Secular Clergy.htm
In the language of religious the world (sæculum) is opposed to the cloister; religious who follow a rule, especially those who have been ordained, form the regular clergy, while those who live in the world are called the secular clergy. Hence the expression so frequently used in canonical texts: "uterque clerus", both secular and regular clergy. The secular cleric makes no profession and follows no religious rule, he possesses his own property like laymen, he owes to his bishop canonical obedience, not the renunciation of his own will, which results from the religious vow of obedience; only the practice of celibacy in Holy Orders is identical with the vow of chastity of the religious. The secular clergy, in which the hierarchy essentially resides, always takes precedence of the regular clergy of equal rank; the latter is not essential to the Church nor can it subsist by itself, being dependent on bishops for ordination.
RELIGIOUS VOWS
Obedience
As good Christians, they owed obedience to their bishop in religious matters, and their profession, if they rightly understood its spirit, made prompt and complete submission easy. But religious obedience, as we understand it now, began only with the cenobitical life, and at the time of which we speak there was nothing to oblige the cenobite to remain in the monastery. The cenobitic life was also combined with the solitary life in such a way that, after a sufficient formation by the common discipline, the monk gave proof of his fervour by retiring into solitude in order to fight hand-to-hand against the enemy of his salvation, and to find in independence a compensation for the greater severity of his life.
Poverty
Poverty then consisted for the hermits in the renunciation of worldly goods, and in the most sparing use of food, clothing, and all necessaries. The cenobites were forbidden to enjoy any separate property, and had to receive from their superior or the procurator everything they needed for their use; they were not, however, incapable of possessing property.
Chastity
Having once entered the religious life, the virgin, the ascetic, and the monk felt a certain obligation to persevere. Marriage or return to the world would be such inconstancy as to merit the reproach of Christ, "No man putting his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God" (Luke 9:62). Still we have no evidence to prove that there was a strict obligation, and there were no vows properly so called: even for virgins, the passages from Tertullian and St. Cyprian, on which some persons rely, are capable of another interpretation.
THE DE LA SALLE BROTHERS (Fratres Scholarum Christianarum)
The Brothers of the Christian Schools began making a difference in people's lives over 320 years ago. They were founded by St. John Baptist de La Salle, a French priest, who saw the need for a group of lay men who would dedicate their lives to the ministry of Christian education, especially for the poor. The Brothers continue to change lives and make a difference. Today, over 6,000 Brothers conduct schools in 84 countries. In the Baltimore District, the Christian Brothers sponsor a middle school for at-risk, primarily Latino boys in Camden, NJ; they conduct La Salle University in Philadelphia; and they educate high school students in Baltimore, Philadelphia, Pittsburgh, Jersey City, Cumberland, MD and Washington, D.C. In addition, through the St. Gabriel's System in Philadelphia, the Brothers provide educational and social services for delinquent youth, 10 to 18 years of age.
A Consecrated Life
The Christian Brothers dedicate their lives to God through vows of poverty, chastity, obedience, community life and educational service to the poor. The Brothers commit themselves to the ministry of education and do not seek ordination. They affirm their commitment to education through their vows, daily prayers, teaching, counseling, and community life.
Faith and Zeal
St. John Baptist de La Salle recognized that providing education was a means of both spreading the Gospel and improving the lives and opportunities of young people. His spirit of Faith and Zeal is still the spirit of the religious community he founded. The Brothers work to develop new and creative ways of meeting the changing needs of the poor and marginalized in society.
The ministry of the Brothers goes beyond the school day. Brothers develop strong, fraternal connections with their students and colleagues. De La Salle told the Brothers that their "greatest miracle" is to touch hearts. Often that "miracle" happens outside of the classroom, by a few words of support, counsel or encouragement.
A Community
The Brothers live together, enjoying the benefits of working, praying and recreating with one another. Each community is made up of a diverse group of men dedicated to education. Community life is not a substitute for marriage or family, but it is a source of strength and support for each Brother. Family, friends, students, colleagues and those seeking to learn more about their vocation are welcomed into the Brothers community.
Aspirancy
The Aspirancy Program is designed to help the individual know himself better, deepen his relationship with God, and learn more about the Brother' vocation. Participation in the program primarily involves meeting monthly with a Brother and attending two retreats each year with other Aspirants; it does not imply any commitment to becoming a Brother.
Scholastic Residency
After participating in Aspirancy, the candidate may apply to live in the formation community, where he annually promises to observe the Brothers' Rule and prepare himself for community life and the ministry of Christian education. Now called "Brother," he pursues a program of studies determined by his educational background and experience.
Apostolic Residency
Following one or two years of Scholastic Residency, the candidate moves to a Brothers' community associated with a Lasallian school. Called "Brother" and being a Brother to his students, he is fully engaged in the Lasallian educational ministry, usually for two years.
Novitiate
If recommended by this Brothers, the student Brother may apply for the novitiate. This twelve-month program is designed to help the novice grow even closer to God while learning more about the Lasallian vocation, the vows, and other topics related to religious life. Toward the end of the Novitiate, the Brother may request permission to make First Vows, which are renewed annually until Final Vows.
Steps for becoming a Dominican
Today young people are in an authentic search for the Dominican vocation, in order to join some 6500 friars and 32 000 apostolic sisters and cloistered nuns working in 83 countries. The different steps that bring a friar to a definitive commitment in the Dominican Order (or Order Preachers) are simple; they are directed toward a fundamental objective: to permit the coherent and progressive integration of the principles that make up Dominican life.
First Step: Getting to know one another
The first step, above all else, permits the candidate to better get to know the Order. This is normally done through regular meetings with one of the local vocations directors. The vocations director will enable further contact with other Dominican communities with varied lifestyles as well as help the candidate discern whether or not he is made for Dominican life. If there is a positive response at the end of this step then the candidate will be invited to proceed to the next step: postulancy.
Second Step: Postulancy
The candidate who aspires to become a Domincan is invited to live in a Priory (community of friars) for at least three months before the beginning of the novitiate. During the time of the postulancy the candidate can keep his job and/or continue to pursue studies. At the same time, this step permits a progressive integration into the life of a community: prayer, meals, community meetings, times for renewal and formation. The candidate is invited to undertake activities that engage him at both the social and pastoral levels.
During the postulancy a formation program is established by whoever is responsible for the postulancy. Monthly meetings of all the postulants are planned. These meetings develop fundamental themes such as the catechism, Dominican spirituality, particular areas of personal growth and affective maturity. At the end of the postulancy experience the community, or representatives of the community, is invited to offer an opinion on the admittance of the candidate to the novitiate.

Third Step: Novitiate
The duration of the novitiate is 12 months. The novitiate begins every year on the 1st of August and lasts until the 8th of August of the following year. This time of retreat allows future friars (ordained or not) to know Dominican life more intimately than before. Through the daily shared experience with other novice brothers, those in charge of formation (Novice Master and the assistant) and the members of the welcoming community, the novice progressively discovers the major identity traits of the Dominican identity.
This period of 12 months includes diverse activities: the study of the life of St. Dominic and other great Dominican figures; the study of the Constitutions and the history of the Order; an introduction to the Bible, to personal and community prayer and liturgy; an elaboration of apostolic activities; visits to different Dominican communities and meetings with brothers and sisters in various apostolates.
The end of the novitiate is marked with the “simple profession” (for a period of three years) on the occasion of the Feast of St. Dominic, August 8th.
Fourth Step: Academic Studies
After the novitiate, the new friar integrates into a community of formation, usually the Couvent St-Jean-Baptiste d’Ottawa. Although integrated into the life of the community itself, the friars in formation form a more limited community called the “studendate” where one finds the space to consolidate the values acquired thus far. This new step corresponds to institutional studies pursued at the Dominican College of Philosophy and Theology in view of attaining bachelor and then graduate degrees in theology.
Fifth Step: Integration
This step usually marks an interruption. In keeping with certain objectives it is more profitable for future clerics to take this step at the end of a first degree in theology. This step consists of a pastoral placement that allows the friar to appropriate and apply theological learning to concrete needs and situations. This step also permits the friar in formation to reflect on his apostolic motivations and to clarify theological questions before undertaking the last step of studies.
DEFINITION OF TERMS:
1. Holy Orders
Holy Orders is the sacrament through which the mission entrusted by Christ to his apostles continues to be exercised in the Church until the end of time: thus it is the sacrament of apostolic ministry. It includes three degrees: episcopate, presbyterate, and diaconate. (CCC 1536)
Ministerial priesthood consists of three orders:
• the order of the episcoporum – Bishop
• the order of the presbyterorum - Priest
• the order of the diaconorum - Deacon
Admission into one of these three orders is not just a matter of election, delegation, designation, or institution, but rather as a gift of the Holy Spirit, which comes from Christ through His Church. (Source: The Essential Catholic Handbook of the Sacraments)
2. Diocesan Priest
The priest that serves your parish in many instances is a diocesan priest. He may also be involved in other ministries as well: he may serve on a campus, as a hospital chaplain, a teacher, be an administrator or even be coordinator of special events within the diocese.
The diocesan priests were called to serve people by God, accomplishing the mission for the Church through the celebration of the Eucharist, the liturgy and other sacramental commemorations. They make no vows, however, during ordination, they freely make promises of celibacy and obedience to their bishop.
The order of the priesthood is recognized as the highest of the Major Orders according to the traditional Catholic Rite of Holy Orders.
Then he took the bread, said the blessing, broke it, and gave it to them, saying "This is my body, which will be given for you; do this in memory of me." And likewise the cup after they had eaten, saying, "This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which will be shed for you." Luke 22: 19-20


3. Deacons
Men have been called from the beginning of the churches history to be consecrated to preach the Gospel, administer the sacraments and serve the community. For the most part, we think of priests and bishops for the calling of Holy Orders.
Although not familiar in every diocese, there is also the deacon. Deacons are men who have also been called as an official sign to be a living example to others in the Christian life. Deacons can read the Gospel, give homilies at Mass and be administers of communion. However, only a priest can administer the other sacraments.
Deacons can be married and have families. Their family life should be stable and they should have the consent of them before pursuing a life which involves commitments of this apostolic nature. Single men can also become deacons, however, when ordained, they make a promise of celibacy, similar to a priest, and may not marry.
There are two kinds of deacons: transitional and permanent. Transitional deacons are in the process of being ordained a priest. Permanent deacons are where the man ordained remains so. Both share in the Order of the Deacon.
What does a deacon do? A deacon is an ordained minister of the Church. Deacons preach and assist at liturgical celebrations (but cannot consecrate the Eucharist), baptize, witness marriages, preside at funerals, and distribute the Eucharist. Deacons do not hear confessions or anoint the sick. They are committed to serving the poor and marginalized.
What are the basic requirements to become a deacon? Someone preparing to become a deacon must be active in the Church. He may be married or single and should be between 35 and 60 at the time of ordination. He must complete an appropriate formation (preparation) program and serve in the ministries of lector and acolyte before ordination as a deacon.
4. Religious Life
Serving the Diocese of Springfield in Illinois are brothers, sisters and religious priests who have responded to God's call. They are living signs of a life lived in Christ.
Brothers, sisters and religious priests work together and pray together. They work for peace & justice among all people regardless of their race or creed.
Among these pages you can find a brief summary of the religious calling. Contact information for the various religious houses that serve the Diocese of Springfield can be found in the master address directory. Take the time to visit their own individual websites to become more acquainted with the various orders.
How long does it take to become a priest, sister, or brother in a religious community? It takes 2-4 years as a postulant and a novice, living in a religious community and learning about it; 3-6 years of temporary vows, during which a person fully participates in the religious community; Permanent vows (a lifetime commitment to religious life), after which a seminary Program of Priestly Formation may be undertaken.
How does a person choose among the many different religious communities? Each religious community has a spirituality and purpose. Members of all religious communities participate in daily prayer. Apostolic (active) religious communities focus on service. Contemplative communities focus on prayer.
5. Sister
Vocations for woman are very diverse and unique to each order of Sisters.
The choice of the ministry that a woman chooses arise from the founder's purpose of the community she joins. There was a specific charism developed in each community with varying prayer and community life. Woman called to become Sisters, take vows of obedience, chastity and poverty. They go wherever they are needed by their order.
The woman religious, as well as her community, look together at the needs of the church to decide which path to walk. How a sister spends her day also depends on the type of community. Active communities are involved with education, social work, parish work, just to name a few. Those sisters who join contemplative orders find their work in their communities. They may cook, garden or do craftwork. Their life is characterized by constant prayer.
6. Brother
A Brother is a lay Christian man who commits his life to Christ and to the Christian community. He is part of a community committed to prayer and one another. A Brother takes vows of poverty, chastity and obedience to the order with whom he serves.
Brothers have many ministries which they may be called to and his ministry is essential to his life. Some brothers teach, others coach. They are ministers to the sick, the poor and the youth. However, beyond the ministry he is called to share, his lifestyle is what really characterizes his life.
As a Brother, he needs to be able to share fraternal friendship and love. As a community, Brothers walk side by side with those they serve with; they share morning and evening prayer, Mass and conversation. Each order has their own unique charism which is their guiding mission.
7. Marriage
"The matrimonial covenant, by which a man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament." Catechism of the Catholic Church #1601.
You can read further as marriage as a vocation in the Catechism of the Catholic Church by using the link to the USCCB website or visit the Office of Family and Youth Ministry at the official Diocese of Springfield in IL website.
8. Lay Ministry
Since Christian initiation is the call to active participation in the mission and ministry of the Church, whether one is called to the ordained or lay ministry, and realizing that each person has gifts and charisms to share in the service of the people of God.
9. Lay Religious
The religious laity are members of a particular religious order who make a commitment to live a life of prayer, study, and service while keeping their own lifestyle and careers as single or married women and men.
Also known as secular third orders, the religious laity are people who follow the inspiration and guidance of a particular religious order while still maintaining a life in the secular world. Usually the formation for the religious laity is longer than with an associate program.
10. Associates
Lay people may become associate members of religious communities. Associates can be single or married and the commitment to the community in which you "associate" with can vary.

Note: References for this handout on the Different aspects of vocation can be found in Seniors Zobel Website.

DE LA SALLE SANTIAGO ZOBEL SCHOOL

CL - HANDOUT
MARIAN LESSON
Christian Living-Seniors, Term 2 SY 2010-2011
FEAST OF THE NATIVITY OF THE BLESSED VIRGIN MARY
When was the Mother of God born? We can't know for certain, of course, but for almost 15 centuries now, the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary has been celebrated on September 8. Those who are quick with math have already figured out that September 8 is exactly nine months after December 8--the feast of the Immaculate Conception of Mary.
In earlier centuries, the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary was celebrated with greater fanfare. Now, most Catholics probably don't even realize that the Church has a special feast day set aside to celebrate it. But, like the Immaculate Conception, the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary is an important date in our salvation history. Christ needed a mother, and Mary's own conception and birth, therefore, are events without which Christ's own birth would have been impossible.
It's no surprise, then, that the Christians of the second century A.D. recorded the details of Mary's birth in such documents as the Protoevangelium of James and the Gospel of the Nativity of Mary. While neither document bears the authority of Scripture, they provide us with everything that we know about the life of Mary before the Annunciation, including the names of Saint Mary's parents, Saint Joachim and Saint Anna (or Anne). It's a good example of Tradition, which complements (while never contradicting) Scripture.
The Blessed Virgin Mary, sometimes shortened to The Blessed Virgin, is a traditional title specifically used by Roman and Eastern Catholics, Anglo-Catholics, Eastern Orthodox and others to describe Mary, the mother of Jesus.
It carries with it a belief not merely in the virginity of Mary, but of her continuing role within the church and in the life of ordinary Catholics, for which Catholicism in the Dogmatic Constitution of the Church (21 November 1964), passed during the Second Vatican Council, granted her the title Advocate, Auxiliatrix, Adjutrix, and Mediatrix. Colloquially she is often referred to as Our Lady.
First Marian dogma - Divine Motherhood
Theotokos is a compound of two Greek words, θεός "God" and τόκος "parturition, childbirth." Literally, this translates as "God-bearer" or "One who gave birth to God." However, since many English-speaking Orthodox find this literal translation awkward; in liturgical use, "Theotokos" is often retained in Greek or translated as "Mother of God."
The expression "Mother of God" or "Birth-giver of God" should not be understood in the eternal sense; that is, Mary is not understood as having eternally given birth to God the Son in the same way that he is eternally begotten by God the Father. Rather, in the Incarnation, the divine person of God the Son took on a human nature in addition to his divine nature, and it is through Mary that this takes place. Since Jesus Christ is seen as both fully God and fully human, to call Mary the Birth-giver of God is to affirm the fullness of his Incarnation, and by extension, the salvation of humanity.
Second Marian dogma - Perpetual virginity
It is a fundamental Catholic teaching that Mary remained a virgin her entire life. Several explanations are offered regarding verses such as Matthew 13:55 and Mark 6:3, which list "adelphoi" of Jesus. Jerome translated the ambiguous Greek term "adelphoi" to possibly mean certain types of close relatives such as "cousins".[7] Several early writers (the Clementine literature, Hegesippus-Eusebius) suggest that they were stepbrothers of Jesus, sons of a previous wife of Joseph. It is important to note that the perpetual virginity of Mary is linked to the belief in her Immaculate Conception, or sinlessness: her physical virginity is reflective of her spiritual virginity. Mary's perpetual virginity also stresses her exclusive love and dedication to her offspring, Jesus Christ.
This teaching is rejected by most Protestant theologians and many New Testament scholars, who interpret "adelphoi" in the sense of "brother."
Third Marian dogma - Immaculate Conception
Since the Middle Ages, Catholic theologians had argued the question of whether or not Mary had been subject to original sin. In general, the Franciscans argued in favor of her "immaculate conception", the doctrine that she, from the moment of her conception, had been preserved by God from all sin and all tendency to sin; the Dominicans, on the other hand, including most notably Thomas Aquinas, argued that Mary's sinlessness is a grace granted to her at some time after her conception. In 1854, Pope Pius IX effectively ended the debate for Catholics by proclaiming the dogma of the "Immaculate Conception", stating that "the Blessed Virgin Mary in the first instant of her conception was preserved exempt from all stain of original sin by a singular privilege and grace granted by God, in view of the merits of Jesus Christ, the Saviour of the human race." ("Ineffabilis Deus", issued on 8 December 1854).

Fourth Marian dogma - Assumption
The Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into Heaven
Catholic dogma proclaimed under papal infallibility by Pope Pius XII in 1950
In 1950, speaking ex cathedra (that is, for the whole Church), in his encyclical Munificentissimus Deus Pope Pius XII proclaimed the Dogma of the Assumption, in which he stated that "at the end of her earthly course, Mary was assumed into heavenly glory, body and soul". This was a long held belief by Christians since the time of the early Church, despite its recent definition as dogma. Pope Pius XII also stated that he was relying both on scripture and on "apostolic tradition". As an infallible pronouncement, the Dogma of the Assumption is thus a mandatory belief for Catholics. No pope since has issued an infallible dogma.

Fifth Marian dogma - Co-Redemptrix
Some Catholics in the late twentieth century urged Pope John Paul II to infallibly declare Mary Co-Redemptrix, not meaning by this title that Mary herself redeems mankind, but that she cooperates with Jesus in His redemption of the world; as a co-pilot is not equal to the pilot of an airplane, so is the case with Jesus and His Mother as well as with any other Christian faithful who, by the Baptism, becomes member of the Mystical Body of Jesus and, as such, "co-redemptor".
Professor Mark Miravalle of the Franciscan University in Steubenville in the United States launched a petition to urge Pope John Paul to make such a move, by defining the teaching of the Church that Mary is Co-Redemptrix, Mediatrix of All Graces, and Advocate for the People of God. More than six million signatures were gathered from 148 countries. Signatories included Mother Teresa of Calcutta, Cardinal John O'Connor of New York, 41 other cardinals and 550 bishops. However, such a proposal was also heavily criticized by many Catholics who suggested that only Jesus could be a Redeemer and that such an act would drive a wedge in relationships with other apostolic tradition Christian faiths, notably the Orthodox Church and Anglicanism, neither of whom would accept such a designation. Though both Pope Pius XI in 1935 and Pope John Paul II himself in 1985 did use the word co-redemptrix to refer to Mary, no formal infallible dogma supporting such a designation has been issued, notwithstanding the petition.
Mary as Co-Redemtrix is entirely tied to her role in the Incarnation of Jesus. Because Jesus was miraculously incarnated in the womb of the Virgin Mary, the physical, human nature of Jesus was thus derived from Mary. In a very real sense, the blood Jesus shed on the Cross was the blood he received from Mary. And since Jesus saved mankind by his incarnation, and this was made possible by the obedience of Mary, this becomes a source of understanding Mary as Co-Redemptrix. Mary's role, however, is totally dependent upon her relationship to the redeemer, Jesus, and her total obedience to the Will of the Spirit.

Marian prayers
Rosary
The earliest known Marian prayer is Deipara, Dei Genetrix. Mother of God, dating from late 2nd century. It was, discovered in Egypt in 1917 and was written in the languages of the Copts and Greeks (Theotokos, Mother of God). This title was authorized at the Council of Ephesus in 431 commemorating the Virgin's role in the incarnation of Jesus as the Word of God, and her place in the History of Salvation:
We you for protection, holy Mother of God. Listen to our prayers and help us in our needs. Save us from every danger, glorious and blessed virgin.
A popular Marian devotional is the Rosary of St. Dominic, a form of prayer in which an Our Father, ten Hail Marys and a Glory Be to the Father (together forming a "decade of the Rosary") are recited five times while meditating on the mysteries of the life of Jesus and Mary (Joyful, Luminous, Sorrowful and Glorious) to be followed by a prayer called the "Hail Holy Queen" and perhaps the "Litany of Loreto".
Other famous Marian prayers include the "Magnificat," the Angelus and the Litany of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Marian hymns include O Mary, we Crown Thee With Blossoms Today, O Purest of Creatures, the Regina Coeli, and the Ave Maria. May and October are usually seen within traditional Catholicism as Marian months.
Marian apparitions
The central role of Mary in the belief and practice of Catholicism is reflected in the fact that many Catholic churches contain side altars dedicated to the Virgin Mary. She is also celebrated through major religious sites where it is claimed apparitions or appearances of the Virgin have occurred, often with claims by witnesses that messages to humanity were delivered.
Marian Feast days
Among the most prominent Marian feast days in the Catholic Calendar are:

• January 1 Mary, Mother of God
• January 8 Our Lady of Prompt Succor
• February 2 Purification of Mary
• February 11 Our Lady of Lourdes
• March 25 Annunciation by Archangel Gabriel
• May 1 Queen of Heaven
• May 13 Our Lady of Fatima
• May 31 Mary, Mediatrix of all Graces

• June 27 Our Lady of Perpetual Help
• August 15 Assumption into Heaven
• August 21 Our Lady of Knock
• September 8 Our Lady of Good Health, Our Lady of Charity
• September 15 Our Lady of Sorrows
• October 7 Feast of the Most Holy Rosary
• December 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception
• December 12 Our Lady of Guadalupe


THE HOLY ROSARY
Luminous Mysteries
( Mysteries of Light )
Thursdays or Sundays
Intentions

First Mystery - Baptism Our Lord
Second mystery - Miracle at Cana
Third mystery - Proclamation Kingdom
Fourth mystery - Transfiguration
Fifth mystery - Institution Eucharist
The Glorious Mysteries
Wednesdays, Saturday and Sundays
Intentions
First Mystery - Resurrection
Second mystery -Ascension
Third mystery - Descent Holy Spirit
Fourth mystery - Assumption
Fifth mystery - Coronation Our Lady
The Sorrowful Mysteries
Tuesdays, Fridays and Sundays of Lent
Intentions
First Mystery - Agony Ghetsemani
Second Mystery - Scourging
Third Mystery -Crowning with thorns
Fourth Mystery - Carrying of cross
Fifth Mystery - Crucifixion, agony, death

The Joyful Mysteries
Mondays, Thursdays and Sundays of Advent
Intentions
First Mystery-Annunciation
Second Mystery - Visitation
Third Mystery -Nativity
Fourth Mystery - Presentation
Fifth Mystery -Finding of child Jesus
Saturday, November 13, 2010

De La Salle Santiago Zobel School 
Academic Year 2010-2011
•HANDOUT IN CL4 TERM 2 MODULE 2 (Part1)
•VALUING HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS: Parental Love, Fraternal/Filial love, Platonic/Friendly Love, Obssessive Love, Erotic Love

Introduction to Human Love Relationships

“We are like angels with one wing, we can only fly by embracing each other...”

In the context of our daily life realities, we are able to walk the journey when we are with others.
As social beings, we are influenced by the people around us and the relationships we have with them.
Most of the joys and problems we experience come from the way we relate with people…

Some relationships enable us to grow while others stifle growth. And the painful fact is that sometimes it is not easy to recognize the difference before they actually hurt us.
In this lesson/module we will discover the different types of relationships we are in….recognize which of these are life-giving to enable us to grow in our relationship with God and others

Before we tackle those types of relationships let us familiarize ourselves with the following terminologies that will help us understand this module better.

•          Affinitythe condition of close relationship.
•          Consanguinity- relationship by blood
•          Agnate--a relation through descent on the male side.
•          Agnation-relationship through male descent. .
•          Amity-friendship or harmony between individuals or groups. Also called comity.
•          Cognate-a relation through descent on the female side
•          Cognation-relationship through female descent.
•          Cousinry-cousins collectively or as a group or class.
•          Enation-the maternal relationship.
•          Epigone-an heir, descendant, or successor, frequently an inferior successor.
Filiation-1. the f act or condition of being a son or daughter.                       2. the relation of child to parent, especially father.
•          Kinship-family relationship or other close tie or relationship.
•          Lineage-line of descent from an ancestor or ancestors; family or ancestry.
•          Matriliny-descent through the female line, as in ancestry, inheritance, etc.
•          Patriliny-relationship or descent through the male line, as in ancestry, inheritance, etc. —Synomosy-Ancient Greece. fellowship or brotherhood bound by solemn oath.
•          Agape-The highest form of love in the Christian Gospel

1. PARENTAL LOVE
•Love of parents to their offspring
•Unconditional and unlimited in the presence of children
•Ever present and has not changed in essence and character
•The most natural of all human interactions

•The story of the Prodigal Son where the father showed his love through his son’s trials and mistakes.
•The initial way to have a give and take relationship centering upon love is through parents.

-           Parental love is derived from “agape” which creates goodness in the world
-            The family is a group united by marriage, co-habitation, blood, and/or adoption
-           Since the family is the basic unit of communities, these types of relationships are vital to the development of society
-          Parental love is one of the first type of love we experience from God and our families. We feel cared for and it helps us understand our purpose in this world.
-           Nurturing parental love is what gives children the motivation to grow up with a good goal.
-           Present throughout the bible, usually the core values of parables and miracles (e.g. Abraham’s willingness to offer his Son to God)
-           Present throughout history in literature, movies, and contemporary pop culture
-           Given importance ever since the dawn of time, since the family is where first relationships are developed and progressed.

•Parental love is the origin of love where a child learns and gets the essence of love.
•The love of our parents to us will never be lesser than our love for them.
Parental love is a kind of relationship where parents give unconditional love to their parents regardless at how their children act.

•2. FRATERNAL/FILIAL LOVE

•Brotherly love
•The most fundamental kind of love
•The Lord loves us and wants us to love one another.
•Characterized by its lack of exclusiveness
•There is experience of union with all men

•It is the spirit of thanksgiving to the Lord and acceptance of life’s various circumstances
•It is demonstrated in deeds
•The people around you will influence you in growing up to be who you are in the future
•It is shown to others, not just to our siblings

•In the novel Dekada ’70 by Lualhati Bautista, fraternal love is shown in the story where Jules and his other brothers showed their love and care for one another despite their shortcomings, faults and hardships.
•The 2nd Greatest Commandment as told by Jesus, which is to “Love your neighbor as you love yourself”

•Fraternal and Paternal Love are love-relationships which revolve around the family.
•These primarily concern the welfare and development of ach member of the family to be God’s children.
•These love-relationships also focus on the love God wants us to give on one another as he has shown throughout history.
•They also impart on us our initial values and beliefs which one utilizes as he sets off into life outside the family.

Web Sources:


3.  PLATONIC LOVE

Definition/Description:

-An affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise (e.g. friendship between two people of the opposite sexes)

•Platonic love in its modern popular sense is an affectionate relationship into which the sexual element does not enter, especially in cases where one might easily assume otherwise.

•A simple example of platonic relationships is a deep, non-sexual friendship between two heterosexual people of the opposite sexes.

•At the same time, this interpretation is a misunderstanding of the nature of the Platonic ideal of love, which from its origin was that of a chaste but passionate love, based not on uninterest but virtuous restraint of sexual desire.

•In its original Platonic form, this love was meant to bring the lovers closer to wisdom and the Platonic Form of Beauty.
•It is described in depth in Plato's Phaedrus and Symposium.



History

•The term amor platonicus was coined as early as the 15th Century by the Florentine scholar Marsilio Ficino as a synonym for amor socraticus. Both expressions signify a love focused on the beauty of a person's character and intelligence rather than on their physical charms.

Biblical  Foundations:
•Adulterers and adulteresses! have ye not known that friendship of the world is enmity with God? whoever, then, may counsel to be a friend of the world, an enemy of God he is set. James 4:4
•A righteous person looks out for his neighbor, but the path of wicked people leads others astray. Proverbs 12:26
•He who informs against friends for a share [of the spoil], The eyes of his children also will languish.Job 17:5
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4.  Obsessive Relationships

Introduction
Definition/Description

Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another.

•unequal relationship characterized by an unhealthy attachment to another person causing a loss of emotional self control

•a relationship where-in a person tends to think about the other a lot of the time, letting the other person dominate their life, directly or indirectly
•lovers are distracted from their normal thoughts and activities
•they become pre-occupied with every aspect of another’s personality
•a persistent and irrational idea, frequently unpleasant, which cannot be eliminated voluntarily

Stages of Progression
Phase 1: Attraction
-instantaneous and overwhelming attraction to another person
-immediate urge to rush into a relationship regardless of compatibility
-formation of unrealistic fantasies

Phase 2: Anxious
-usually occurs after a commitment has been made
-overwhelming fear of abandonment
-there is a need to be constantly in contact with the person

Phase 3: Obsession
-“tunnel vision” (relationally dependent person can’t stop thinking about a love interest)
-unfounded accusations of cheating
-controlling behaviors are critical
-controlled person begins to pull back and eventually ends the relationship
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Phase 4: Destructive
-overwhelming feelings of depression
-loss of self-esteem
-feeling of revenge
-Denial
-may result to the use of drugs

Biblical Foundation
David and Bathsheba
(2 Samuel 11:1-27)

            “ 4Then David sent messengers to get her (Bathsheba). She came to him, and he slept with her. Then she went back home. 5The woman conceived and sent word to David, saying, "I am pregnant."

 ” 14In the morning David wrote a letter to Joab and sent it with Uriah. 15In it he wrote, "Put Uriah in the front line where the fighting is fiercest. Then withdraw from him so he will be struck down and die."

“ 26When Uriah's wife heard that her husband was dead, she mourned for him. 27After the time of mourning was over, David had her brought to his house, and she became his wife and bore him a son. But the thing David had done displeased the LORD.”

Insights and Reflections
•Insights:

We learned that obsessive love relationship is very unhealthy. Almost all the effects of this kind of relationship is negative aside from the effect that it will test your patience. Most of the people engaged in this kind of relationship may not be aware that they are in this kind of relationship.


•Reflection:

Many people break up because of this kind of relationship. Most of the time, when one is obsessed with his or her partner, he or she tends to go beyond his limits, limiting his partner’s freedom, choking his partner and eventually gets tired of this kind of treatment which leads to a break up. It is hard to perceive once one has already entered this kind of relationship. In entering this kind of relationship, one should see to it that he or she is not going beyond their limits and not be controlled by obsession.

Sources
•Love and Renewal (page 17)
•Applied Psychology (page 443)
•The Psychology of Interpersonal Relations (page 96)
•EQ (Emotional Intelligence) In Building Relationships (page 4)
•Loving What Is by Byron Katie (page 3)
•http://www.enotalone.com/article/2499.html
•http://easyweb.easynet.co.uk/simplepsych/obsessrel.html

5.  EROTIC LOVE

Christianity isn’t opposed to erotic love—on the contrary, it seeks to rescue it from
degradation, and restore it to the type of love that never fades or fails.

Definition/Description:

ž  Erotic love is a deep feeling of sexual desire and attraction.
ž  Eroticism is an aesthetic focus on sexual desire, especially the feelings of anticipation of sexual activity. It is not only the state of arousal and anticipation, but also the attempt through various means to incite those feelings.
ž  Erotic love is sexual love. While sexual desire and passion may fade with time, true erotic love has a tendency to grow and, over time, acquires many of the qualities of family affection and of friendship. This type of love is shown in the love between partners who are lovers.

History of Erotic Love:

ž  The word eroticism is derived from the Greek God of love Eros
ž  In ancient Greek philosophy, Eros was after all the primordial God of unhinged sexual desire. In the platonic ordered system, Eros corresponds to the subject’s longing for ideal beauty and finality. A harmonious unification not only with body but also knowledge and pleasure.
ž  In the middle ages, Christians tried to separate erotic and platonic feelings declaring that friendship is entirely different from sexual attractions.
ž  Eroticism was hard to define depending on the perception of what erotic means.

It helps us to understand more about Human Sexuality.
ØHuman Sexuality refers to the expression of sexual sensation and related intimacy between human beings.
ØLearning more about Human Sexuality will help one to build his own identity.
ØThe limitations and boundaries of Sex, being God’s gift to man, can be fully understood.
It helps us to understand man’s powerful and natural drive towards sensual and sexual gratification.



ØThrough this, we can understand why people look for nurturing, assistance, encouragement, affection and love in others.
It helps us to understand human relationships.

ØIt can answer key questions on what teenagers of today experience, as a result of a world that is greatly influenced by media.
ØIt helps us to understand why a lot of relationships fail when they are governed by Erotic Love.
ØIt serves as a guideline on what kind of love should relationships really avoid.

Dating Alone
ØDating exclusively entails a lot of responsibility.
ØDating alone may lead to a great temptation.
Being alone together in a secluded place

ØBeing alone together in a secluded place brings a lot of temptation.
ØThis should be avoided.
Wearing provocative clothes
ØThis applies very well to girls
ØIf girls would wear outfits that would invite men to think promiscuously about them, then the girls would be a big temptation.

CHURCH AND SCRIPTURAL FOUNDATIONS:

POPE BENEDICT:
•In his first major treatise:

  “In this encyclical, I want to show the concept of love in its various dimensions,"
Erotic love can be blended with and be transformed into spiritual love, "where two people really love each other and one no longer seeks his or her own joy or delights but seeks above all the good of the other person.”
Exodus 20:14
•“Do not commit adultery.”
•The act of thinking about a person lustfully (if not within the bounds of marriage) is considered adultery.
Unrequited Love

INSIGHTS and REFLECTIONS:

•Erotic love is Bad if it is practiced outside the bounds of marriage, for that promotes immorality.

•Erotic Love is Good if it is practiced in a Marital relationship, for Erotic Love can be turned to spiritual and true love if two people will learn to love each other unconditionally.

•We have learned that Erotic Love helps us to understand fully human sexuality. It does not necessarily mean being full of lust for it can happen out of a deep feeling of love and intimacy. We have learned that Erotic Love helps us to understand the stages that some teenagers experience today.
•We have realized that God gave us different types of love Love is something, that if understood fully, can help us to  understand the processes of human development. We have realized that it is best to follow God’s will and our parents in order for us to protect ourselves form Erotic Love that is outside the bounds of a Marital relationship.

SOURCES:
•Adolescent Problems by Nicolson and Ayers
•Personhood by Leo F. Buscaglia
•Christian Morality and You by Michael Pennock
•Chicken Soup for the Soul II p.18
Thursday, December 2, 2010
What does Advent Mean?
Advent is a term from the Latin word 'adventus' which means "arrival".
—It is a time of waiting for the arrival of Christmas, the coming of Jesus to earth when he was born as a baby at Bethlehem about two thousand years ago.

—What is Advent?
Advent is the new year of the Christian Church and the church season that leads to Christmas Day.
—Advent is the time when Christians remember that Jesus came into the world in Palestine 2000 years ago and that Jesus also promised one day to return in all His glory.
—Clergy typically wear royal purple or royal blue (symbol of hope)vestments during Advent. Many churches also include an advent wreath(sometimes called an Advent ring or crown) in their Advent services.
—The Christian Year
—Christian year---follows the life of Jesus. It begins with Advent Sunday - which is the Christian church, is 'New Year's Day'.
—Easter Sunday---The most important day of the year will be the day on which Jesus came back to life - but before that festival, there will be other special days to look forward to. At the end of Advent, there will be Jesus' birthday (Christmas Day )

What happens during Advent?
—During the season of Advent, Christians across the world prepare for the celebration of the arrival of the Lord into the world through the birth of his Son Jesus Christ. Advent is a time to celebrate light in the midst of darkness. It is also a time to look forward to when Jesus will come a second time.
—The beginning of Advent is when the preparations for Christmas really begin - the festive menu is planned, gifts are chosen and wrapped,  carols sung, cards are written and posted and houses decorated
—History of Advent
—In the 5th Century, Advent began on November 11 (St Martin's Day) and took the form of a six week fast leading to Christmas. During the 6th century, Advent was reduced to its current length and later the fasting was dropped.
Advent Customs and Traditions
—The Advent Wreath
The Advent Wreath is the widely recognized symbol of Advent.
—The wreath is made of a circle of evergreen branches laid flat to symbolize eternal life. Four candles (traditionally red) stand in the circle and each one represents one of the four Sundays of Advent. In the centre of the circle is a fifth candle (traditionally white), the Christ Candle, which is lit on Christmas Day.
Why is the Advent Wreath so special to Christians?
—The circle of the wreath reminds Christians of God, His eternity and endless mercy, which has no beginning or end.
—The green of the wreath speaks of the hope that Christians have in God, the hope of newness, of renewal, of eternal life.
Candles on the Advent Wreath
—Advent worship is like a journey through the Christmas story. Christians use the Advent candles to celebrate this period with one lit every Sunday of Advent so that during the last week before Christmas all four candles are lit. The last central candle (which represents Christ), is lit on Christmas Day.

—What do the Advent candles stand for?
—Candles symbolise the light of God coming into the world through the birth of His son, Jesus.
The four traditional advent themes for the four advent Sundays are:
God's people -The Candle of Hope.
Hope is like a light shining in a dark place. As we look at the light of this candle we celebrate the hope we have in Jesus Christ.
The old testament prophets - The Candle of Peace
Peace is like a light shining in a dark place. As we look at this candle we celebrate the peace we find in Jesus Christ.
John the Baptist - The Candle of Love Love is like a candle shining in a dark place. As we look at the light of this candle we celebrate the love we have in Christ.
Mary the mother of Jesus - The Candle of Joy
Joy is like a light shining in a dark place. As we look at this candle we celebrate the joy we find in Jesus Christ.
—The fifth candle represents the birth of Christ. The flame of this candle remind us that He is the light of the world and that if we follow Him, we will never walk in darkness, but will have the true light of life.